As I drove home from the office last night, people were celebrating in the street. Barak Obama had been elected our new president and there was excitement in the air. People seem particularly passionate about the change our country needs and who would be best suited to produce the desired results. I had many people, including clients; ask me who I would be supporting.
There's an old saying, “In business, never talk about religion or politics.” People can be quite opinionated about these subjects. If you bring up those topics for discussion you may have the opportunity to bond with someone who shares your opinion or distance yourself from someone who doesn't. From a diplomatic standpoint, it's wise to steer clear.
In his book, “The 12 Stages of Healing”, Dr. Donald Epstein summarizes various stages of healing or states of consciousness people experience. The second stage of healing, he calls polarity. In this state of consciousness we look outside of ourselves for our solutions or fulfillment. In this stage, we don't take full responsibility for our own experience. For instance, I might experience happiness if I attract a wonderful new relationship or job. If my happiness is based upon these circumstances outside of myself, and I lose the job or relationship, I would also lose my happiness.
In a state of polarity we tend to look at opposites and see things only as wrong and right, good and bad, black and white and so on. Initially, when the relationship, job or doctor makes everything better for us we love them. Alternatively, when they no longer fulfill or fix us, we blame them.
Stage two is prevalent in healthcare. Patients put the power and authority in the hands of their doctor, hoping to be “fixed”. In this way, they relinquish responsibility for their own health in hopes of being saved from the disease or symptom that has afflicted them.
Sometimes politicians use the stage of polarity to jockey for position and win elections. They do this by pointing out how bad their opponents track record is or how the opponent's values are opposite of yours. For instance, a politician might use the platform of Christian family values because it can polarize and compel people to vote based only on that issue. Interestingly, the polarized platform usually becomes much less relevant once the election is over.
When thinking about the election and the needed change in our country and the world, an Albert Einstein quote comes to mind. “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it .”
In our medical based model, we look to our doctor to remove our symptoms. If we look at the state our healthcare system is in, it is easy to see that the model simply doesn't work. If an individual wants to change their health, they must begin to change themselves and the environment, internally and externally, that created their current state of health. Even if one is successful in quelling their symptoms, if that is all that changes, the original or another symptom will inevitably return.
In a state of polarity, we look to our politicians as our saviors. We hope that they will be the ones to fix things for us. The reality is that politicians are just a reflection of society. Politicians and their policies are merely symptoms of society that emulate the traits of the collective consciousness of the people they represent. It is understandable that people want a change in the government and its policies but if a sustainable change is to occur, we must look at changing ourselves and our own state of consciousness.
Along with the excitement of Obama's victory, comes the trepidation of uncertainty. Will our new leader guide us to better times? Even Obama agrees that a changes is something that must come from all of us as he states, “This victory alone is not the change we seek – it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you. So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism; of service and responsibility where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves, but each other.”
As a Network practitioner, one of my goals is to help individuals move toward self empowerment. As my clients' spines and nervous systems become more flexible and adaptable, they are able to make changes in their own perceptions and behaviors, automatically. They begin to move out of consciousness of polarity and in to one of transformation. That is the key to changing their lives.
Clients of Network Spinal Analysis and Somato-Respiratory Integration consistently report ever increasing levels of wellness. As we move out of the “healthcare” model and into the wellness model we realize and embrace our own responsibility for our health, our lives and our community. The Center for Holistic Health is a wonderful resource for wellness care.