It's Monday morning after the Transformational Gate and, since I have a few hours before the Somato-Respiratory Integration seminar begins, I thought I might share some experiences from this weekend with you. Because I have described the basic idea of this transformational weekend in an article in July's newsletter, I won't go into the logistics too deeply in this writing.In the aforementioned article, I described the process of relinquishing the body's armor and the resulting flexibility in structure and consciousness which contributes to increased awareness, creativity, a feeling of connection, and a greater ability to experience love. After several Gates, one might think that this experience would be old news, but surprisingly, even to me, this is not the case at all. In fact, each time offers a greater level of depth to all of these experiences than the time before.
I heard that there were close to seven hundred participants in this weekend's program which is one of, if not the, largest number of people to be involved in a Transformational Gate. While two days did not offer enough time to personally meet and talk to everyone, there was, never the less, an unspoken connection among each and every attendee. It was what Donald Epstein refers to in his book, “The Twelve Stages of Healing,” as community.
When people are able to shed their armor, they are able to see past the surface to the heart and soul of one another. In this state, judgment gives way to a deepened vision of each individual's inner beauty. Community, in this sense, is the realization that we are all connected, as well as the feeling of pure love for people that we thought we didn't know. To put it another way, one transcends the illusion of separateness and realizes that we have known each other all along. I realize that this concept may sound far fetched to someone who has not experienced it. In addition, I don't believe our culture really has the words to describe the experience at all. If you have ever had the opportunity to realize this connection, you recognize it unmistakably.
At the end of the weekend, participants lined up in two rows facing one another. One at a time, with eyes closed, the person at the end of the row walked slowly down the aisle relying upon the guidance of fellow gaters to guide him or her as the entire group sang a nurturing song. As people walked though the group, they were showered with gentle touches and nurturing guidance. It's amazing to bask in the safety, trust, and pure love that are directed to you.
After this experience, as you walk around the room looking into the eyes of each and every person, you realize that although this may be the first time you met, you have known each other all along. There is a connection - soul to soul - and there are no words to truly describe this experience of community.
In light of ongoing world events and our collective responses, my thoughts keep returning to the idea that if we humans could achieve this “community” we might not only survive but thrive and evolve as a race. I believe it's the message that all the prophets and spiritual leaders in history have conveyed. When I hear the news of some less than desirable response to current events, particularly in New Orleans, it presents an even stronger case for our need to achieve community. While I know that this idea might seem obvious to most of the people reading this newsletter, it is my hope that it may initiate some of you to do a little more than you may normally do to promote community even if it is only to smile at the person you pass in the street. If you help or even just connect with a stranger, remember that they are not really a stranger... on the level of our souls, you have known them all along.
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