Inner Peace: Is it My Responsibility?

by Dr. Gene Clerkin

I recently started working with a practice participant who was dealing with a number of stressful situations in her life, including a major family illness. After a couple of visits, I consulted with her to review her progress and to share how Network Care could help her live a less stressful life. Something very interesting occurred during our conversation.

After receiving a couple of Network entrainments and experiencing what that could feel like, she was confronted with the possibility that she might actually achieve a state of ease in her life. Surprisingly, the possibility of experiencing more ease in her life frightened her more than the inability to do so.

When she reached this realization I could tell something was wrong. When I asked her about it, she said “I'm not sure it's fair for me to feel peaceful while the people around me are in turmoil.” She also wondered if we shouldn't be stressed out about all of the problems we have in our society and our planet.

I suggested that even if she didn't feel like she deserved to be peaceful, doing so would actually better serve those around her. Think about it. Would you rather be around someone who is stressed out or someone who is more peaceful? This would be especially true if you were dealing with a life threatening illness.

When we are stressed out our physiology is set for survival and, among other changes, our resources are directed away from the pre-frontal lobes, or higher brain. Our ability to reason, process new information and create new strategies is severely hindered. It stands to reason that our resourcefulness for others and ourselves would be limited as well.

Based on the principle of harmonic entrainment, we also affect each other though vibration. If you walk into a room you can feel when someone is stressed, even without talking to or looking at them. You can feel their “vibe,” and if you stay in proximity to them your vibe will begin to match theirs.

A few years ago I conducted a seminar on “presence.” During the seminar, we touched on the aspects and importance of being present as well as some strategies for achieving greater presence. In our post seminar discussion, we all agreed that there was tremendous personal benefit in being present, and this brought up an interesting point about our responsibility in practicing it.

“Living in the now,” as Ekhart Tolle would say, creates peace, not only within us but in those around us as well. If this is true, one could argue our inherent responsibility to aspire for presence within ourselves. So, even if we don't feel like we are worthy, I believe we owe it to each other and the rest of the planet to work toward reducing our stress and experiencing greater levels of peace.