Wednesday, November 12, 2008

The Politics of Healing




As I drove home from the office last night, people were celebrating in the street. Barak Obama had been elected our new president and there was excitement in the air. People seem particularly passionate about the change our country needs and who would be best suited to produce the desired results. I had many people, including clients; ask me who I would be supporting.

There's an old saying, “In business, never talk about religion or politics.” People can be quite opinionated about these subjects. If you bring up those topics for discussion you may have the opportunity to bond with someone who shares your opinion or distance yourself from someone who doesn't. From a diplomatic standpoint, it's wise to steer clear.

In his book, “The 12 Stages of Healing”, Dr. Donald Epstein summarizes various stages of healing or states of consciousness people experience. The second stage of healing, he calls polarity. In this state of consciousness we look outside of ourselves for our solutions or fulfillment. In this stage, we don't take full responsibility for our own experience. For instance, I might experience happiness if I attract a wonderful new relationship or job. If my happiness is based upon these circumstances outside of myself, and I lose the job or relationship, I would also lose my happiness.

In a state of polarity we tend to look at opposites and see things only as wrong and right, good and bad, black and white and so on. Initially, when the relationship, job or doctor makes everything better for us we love them. Alternatively, when they no longer fulfill or fix us, we blame them.

Stage two is prevalent in healthcare. Patients put the power and authority in the hands of their doctor, hoping to be “fixed”. In this way, they relinquish responsibility for their own health in hopes of being saved from the disease or symptom that has afflicted them.

Sometimes politicians use the stage of polarity to jockey for position and win elections. They do this by pointing out how bad their opponents track record is or how the opponent's values are opposite of yours. For instance, a politician might use the platform of Christian family values because it can polarize and compel people to vote based only on that issue. Interestingly, the polarized platform usually becomes much less relevant once the election is over.

When thinking about the election and the needed change in our country and the world, an Albert Einstein quote comes to mind. “No problem can be solved from the same level of consciousness that created it .”

In our medical based model, we look to our doctor to remove our symptoms. If we look at the state our healthcare system is in, it is easy to see that the model simply doesn't work. If an individual wants to change their health, they must begin to change themselves and the environment, internally and externally, that created their current state of health. Even if one is successful in quelling their symptoms, if that is all that changes, the original or another symptom will inevitably return.

In a state of polarity, we look to our politicians as our saviors. We hope that they will be the ones to fix things for us. The reality is that politicians are just a reflection of society. Politicians and their policies are merely symptoms of society that emulate the traits of the collective consciousness of the people they represent. It is understandable that people want a change in the government and its policies but if a sustainable change is to occur, we must look at changing ourselves and our own state of consciousness.

Along with the excitement of Obama's victory, comes the trepidation of uncertainty. Will our new leader guide us to better times? Even Obama agrees that a changes is something that must come from all of us as he states, “This victory alone is not the change we seek – it is only the chance for us to make that change. And that cannot happen if we go back to the way things were. It cannot happen without you. So let us summon a new spirit of patriotism; of service and responsibility where each of us resolves to pitch in and work harder and look after not only ourselves, but each other.”

As a Network practitioner, one of my goals is to help individuals move toward self empowerment. As my clients' spines and nervous systems become more flexible and adaptable, they are able to make changes in their own perceptions and behaviors, automatically. They begin to move out of consciousness of polarity and in to one of transformation. That is the key to changing their lives.

Clients of Network Spinal Analysis and Somato-Respiratory Integration consistently report ever increasing levels of wellness. As we move out of the “healthcare” model and into the wellness model we realize and embrace our own responsibility for our health, our lives and our community. The Center for Holistic Health is a wonderful resource for wellness care.

When Awareness Fades, So Does Our Health





During a recent trip to New York , I spent a night at a childhood friend's house. At about 6:45 the next morning, I heard the sound of an alarm clock which was coming from my friend's room. The noise was loud enough so that it could be easily heard throughout the house. The alarm continued to sound for approximately 90 minutes before it was finally shut off. I had experienced this on another occasion while staying with this friend, so I wasn't concerned about the fact that no one was paying any attention to the loud pulsing siren.

As you can imagine, the repetitive, “beep, beep, beep, beep…” was fairly annoying. Although it seemed that my friend and his wife had no problem continuing their slumber, I was to lay awake, unable to escape the unrelenting irritation. Or, so I thought.

But then, something began to happen. It was a very gradual occurrence. I didn't even realize it was happening. Within about twenty or thirty minutes the noise began to fade. But it wasn't the noise that was fading. The volume of the alarm remained constant for the full hour and a half. After a while, however, I began to unconsciously tune it out. It was almost as if it wasn't even there anymore. However, if I refocused my attention on the alarm, I realized the signal was as loud as it ever was.

Everyone will, from time to time, experience symptoms in their body. The symptoms are meant to alert us to the need for change. It might be that we are overwhelmed with stress or that we need to modify our behavior in some way. Either way, the symptom is prompting us to become aware and take the necessary action.

At this point, we have a choice to make. We can listen to our body and make the necessary changes, we can ignore the symptom or we can even attempt to cover the symptom, which is the philosophy of a medical based approach.

When we ignore and attempt to cover our symptoms we become less and less in tune or connected to our body. We are less able to respond to the subtle cues that our body is trying to give us. If attention is not given, the next round of symptoms can be even more severe.

Many times we feel successful if we can just get some relief, even if our pain or symptom isn't completely gone. We begin to accept this as our new standard. Each time our health diminishes a little more.

The previous evening, I asked my friend how his joints were feeling. He has suffered from Gouty arthritis for the past several years. As I watched him struggle to climb the stairs, he said, “I'm doing really great, almost completely better.” The following day we had a conversation about his overall health. At the age of 37, my friend, who is a smoker, is on medication for his arthritis, his previous heart attack and to help him sleep because he is too stressed. Despite his need for all of these prescriptions, his doctor told him he was very healthy. I'd hate to see what it would take to be unhealthy in this doctor's eyes.

I couldn't help but think about what a fitting analogy the ignored alarm was for my friend. Unfortunately, I think his story is one that is lived by many.

Network Spinal Analysis and Somato-Respiratory Integration help our clients develop strategies to navigate their bodies symptoms and use them as beacons of change. Only through awareness and adaptation can we reach our full potential.