Wednesday, September 10, 2008

How Long Does it Take to Heal?

Matajura wanted to become a great awordsman, but his father said he wasn't quick enough and could never learn. Determined, Matajura went to the famous dueller Banzo, and asked to become his pupil. "How long will it take me to become a master?" Matajura asked. Suppose I become your servant, to be with you every minute, how long?"

"Ten years," said Banzo.

"MY father is getting old. Before ten years have passed, I will have to return home to take care of him. Suppose I work twice as hard; how long will it take me?"

"Thirty years," said Banzo.

"How is that?" asked Matajura. "First you say ten years. Then when I offer to work twice as hard, you say it will take three times as long. Let me make myself clear; I will work unceasingly; no hardship will be too much. How long will it take?"

"Seventy years," said Banzo. "A pupil in such a hurry learns slowly."

Patients will often ask their doctors how long it will take for their pain or symptoms to go away. Based on the doctors' experience in treating people with similar symptoms, they can render a guess about how long it should take for the patient to feel better. The contract between the doctor and the patient is that it is the doctor's responsibility to remove the pain. It is not usually part of the contract to find out what's behind the symptoms. This is the basic format of the medical model.

Sometimes when the contract is not fulfilled, patients may get fed up and seek the services of a holistic practitioner. There are a few possible reasons for this. Either the pain doesn't go away, it doesn't go away fast enough, or it goes away but returns.

People contact me regularly because they heard about how someone else's symptoms resolved, and they would like the same results. Whether they are aware of it or not, they have entered the realm of deeper inquiry. The first leg of the journey of healing is discovery. We must find out how we have arrived at this point. Then, instead of just removing the symptom, we can work toward a change in the behaviors or circumstances that led to it in the first place. In this arrangement, the patient becomes more involved and empowered in his or her own process.

The majority of people who seek Network Spinal Analysis (NSA) are happy and very willing to trade being fixed for becoming more empowered, even if the resolution isn't immediate.

For some, there is an expectation that NSA is designed to get rid of their pain immediately. Even though this is a common outcome, it usually occurs when the patient learns to find and release his or her own tension.

I had a client with chronic back pain that was in part caused or exacerbated by the fact that she would sit with poor posture for long periods of time so she could study. She wanted to know when I thought her back pain would subside. Her back was hurting because her body was calling for a change. NSA will actually help us become more aware of the changes we need to make, not numb a person from pain.

She felt that if she took breaks or shifted her behavior she wouldn't get enough studying done. At first she was completely inflexible about there being any other possible solution. I asked her what would happen if she changed her story. What if, by taking more breaks and keeping her body in more of a state of ease, she could actually be more effective when she was studying? She had not considered this.

If my hand is placed upon a hot stove, I would be grateful to experience pain. It would indicate the need for me to remove my hand from the stove. Without the signal, my hand would burn up. If somehow I could remove someone's pain without them discovering why it is happening and what needs to change, am I really doing them a favor?

Recently, on her second visit, another client was pressing me for a prediction of how long it would take her to get “better.” She had neck pain that, by her testimony, was stemming from her inability to deal with her mother's death. Like everyone who seeks healing, she had a process of discovery and release that she needed to experience in order to resolve her symptoms. The time process for this will be different for everyone.

It might be noted that NSA offers ever-evolving strategies for healing and growth. Even if the pain resolves in the first visit, there is always more room for healing and growth. To ask how long it will take is sort of like asking, how long will it take for a tree to grow? A tree will continue to expand its roots and develop new foliage until it dies. One could argue that we are here, in this life, to continually grow and expand as well.

If that philosophy makes sense to you, then NSA was made for you. If you've been away for a while or have never tried NSA, call and book your appointment today. You'll be glad you did.

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