The other day I was watching television with my friend Jason. He turned to the National Geographic channel and asked if I had ever watched a show called “The Dog Whisperer”? I had heard about the show prior to that but had not had an opportunity to see it before then.
The “Dog Whisperer”, Cesar Millan, has an uncanny ability to help rehabilitate dogs with behavioral problems such as aggression, unrelenting barking or jumping on people. As I watched the program I noticed the concepts he taught to the dog owners were totally congruent with what I would teach to my own clients.
Dog owners bring their pets to see Cesar when they desire to change an unwanted behavior. The first point Cesar makes to the owners is that the animal's behavior is a way of sending a distress signal. Somehow his needs as an animal are not being met. The first idea I share with clients is that their symptoms are a call for change. Instead of just attempting to remove the symptom, or behavior, we can look at the circumstances that are causing our bodies or dogs to behave in that manner. This could be a change in diet, exercise, the dynamics of our relationships, or an owner's relationship with their dog.
One of Cesar's techniques is to introduce the behaviorally challenged dogs into his pack of well behaved dogs. One of the reasons he does this is because the energy of the pack is calm. Just by being in the presence of the calm pack, the misbehaving dog will automatically begin to change its own energetic state and behavior. Cesar is employing the concept of harmonic entrainment. Harmonic entrainment is the matching of vibrational tone or energy. When the hyper, nervous or aggressive dog is placed among the calm energy of the pack, he will automatically begin to adopt the same tone and demeanor. Network Spinal Analysis uses the phenomenon of harmonic entrainment to help create a more relaxed physiology for its clients. Transformational Gates are seminars that participants can receive Network care in a large group setting for the same reason. The results are automatically much more powerful.
Cesar also understands that more often than not, a dog's behavior is a reflection of the owner's behavior. Part of his protocol focuses on retraining the owners to be calm and assertive. Many times we wonder why we have so much stress and drama in our lives. We feel like victims of circumstance. However, if we can learn to create more peace within ourselves, we tend to attract less stress and drama into our lives.
Finally, Cesar does not believe in a quick fix and says the best way to find a solution to your dog's problem is to show real love. If we look at the problems we are having with our animals or in our lives, our bodies or our relationships with judgment and blame, it is very difficult to find real solutions. If we can approach them with love, patience and commitment, we have an opportunity to create a shift that is more likely to become a long term change.
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